The #1 Best Strap-On Harness: Rated and Reviewed by Users

To get the most out of your strap-on experience, you’re going to need the perfect harness to match. Let’s dive into the best strap-on harnesses and their unique features.

It can be tough to peg down the number one strap-on harness of all time (pun intended), especially considering that different people are sure to be looking for their own preferred qualities. However, the Strap On Me Leatherette Curious Harness is universally adored by our users, so we’re confident in ranking it among the very best of the best.

A common complaint among people just getting into the wonderful world of strap-ons for the first time is that putting on the harness can be challenging. The Strap On Me Leatherette Curious Harness makes what could be a difficult process quick, seamless, and, above all, fun.

The two belts are fully adjustable, fitting a wide range of body types. If you and your partner are thinking of using the same harness, this could save you both money and time in the long run.

Using a strap on someone is absolutely fun for the one being penetrated, but it’s a treat for the one doing the penetration too. Not only can you feel confident that you’re giving your partner pleasure, but you should also feel incredibly sexy and desirable in your own right.

The Strap On Me Leatherette Curious Harness gets that, which is why its unique shape is made to accentuate your most gorgeous features.

This harness comes in a variety of vibrant colors to help you feel even more comfortable and confident while you’re wearing it. Whether you’d prefer a blue, green, or fuchsia harness, there’s something for everyone.

The ring in front of the harness is stretchy, accommodating all sorts of dildos and vibrators with a flared or flat base. The sturdy build will help keep the toy in place throughout the play, so you don’t have to worry about ruining the mood by constantly readjusting.

Overall, the versatility and ability to make you feel like your best self makes this harness so special. However, if this doesn’t sound quite your speed, we have plenty more options that might just tickle your fancy (among other things).

We know that harnesses with straps can be intimidating at first glance, and the last thing we want is for anyone who’s strap on-curious to get cold feet. The idea of someone feeling that the learning curve is too steep and never enjoying the benefits of strap-on play is simply too sad. To remedy this issue, we present Her Royal Harness Backless Brief.

Unlike harnesses with all sorts of straps, this harness could not be more intuitive. All you have to do is put it on like you would with any pair of underwear. The emphasis of this design is all on comfort, but don’t let that fool you.

This garment is also incredibly effective at strapping people down within an inch of their life. It can hold onto a dildo or vibrator easily, making it a favorite among our customers.

Since it is underwear, you can also wear this piece out and about if you want. The O-Ring in the front can accommodate a packer, making it an excellent tool for gender affirmation. Unlike other harnesses, Her Royal Harness is fully machine washable, so clean-up is a snap.

Let’s not forget about the backless part of the “backless brief,” either. The one wearing the harness gets an extra dose of sexiness in the back. Whether you like the idea of having easy access or just want to feel a breeze occasionally, Her Royal Harness is the gift that keeps giving.

One complication that people can have with harnesses is that they are not always compatible with each dildo, vibrator, packer, or probe that we want to use. This can be a really frustrating experience, especially if you planned every step out and finally found the perfect dildo and harness combination, only to realize that you forgot to measure.

The Dillio Platinum Body Dock SE Strap On Harness renders this issue a distant memory and introduces a whole new world of toys that can now be strap-on compatible.

Most strap-on harnesses function with a ring in the front where the toy can be placed. This strategy works for the most part, but it does mean that not all of your favorite toys can be used as a strap.

The Dillio Platinum Body Dock works differently. Rather than having a ring in the front, it instead has an area where dildos can suction on. That’s right, your suction-cup dildos and vibrators can suddenly become straps.

The design of the harness itself is quite user and beginner friendly, too. Some harnesses come with all manner of straps, but this body dock gives you all of what you need and none of what you don’t. There’s also a cute lace feature on the back to give the wearer a little extra spring in their step.

Lastly, we would like to take a moment to highlight one of the most unique strap-on harnesses we have available. So far, all the harnesses we’ve listed are fashioned around your hips, and the toy is meant to go on your crotch. The Gender Fluid Thigh Rider Strap On Harness saw traditional harnesses and said, “lower!”

Turns out, you can get the same amount of stability and power (if not possibly even more) from wearing a strap-on harness on your thigh instead or your groin. This is a great option for people with any genitals, opening the door for more kinds of play. And as the old saying goes: “save a horse, ride a leg.”

Now that we’ve covered a few of our top harnesses, as reviewed by fans, here are some qualities to look out for when you’re in the market.

When determining the best strap-on harness for you, you must first consider your comfort. Remember that much more goes into “comfort” than just the design or size. You should also take the time to think about what makes you feel the most irresistible.

If you have a favorite color that makes you feel especially sexy, look for a harness with that color! If you like certain shapes or designs, make those a necessary part of your search. Think about your physical and mental comfort since they go hand in hand.

To be clear, we mean both the harness size and the ring (or dock) in the front. This is a necessary component to consider when it comes to how physically comfortable you will be while wearing the garment, so be sure to pay attention to sizing charts.

On the other hand, getting a harness and probe that don’t match up size-wise might lead to more awkward shifting than anyone wants when they’re getting down and dirty.

Many harnesses are adjustable, and as such, they are compatible with multiple different sizes. We at Empower Pleasure have harnesses that go anywhere from small to 3XL and everywhere in between.

Material is another factor to keep in mind when thinking about the comfort of you and your partner. You certainly don’t want to cheap out and then discover that your harness is uncomfortable, itchy, or has the potential of chafing you after prolonged wear.

This is why you should only choose high-quality harnesses made of materials you like.

On a similar note, be wary of getting anything that could aggravate an allergy. This applies to harnesses, toys, and pretty much every other item on the planet. You always want to avoid allergens that could throw your body out of whack. You especially want to avoid them when they’re going to be that close to your crotch (this is especially prominent with latex allergies).

With the right harness, any experience using a strap-on is amplified that much more. That’s why it’s worth it to do your research and make sure that you land on the perfect harness for you.

Sources:

Secret to Feeling Sexy: It’s All in the Mind | NBC News

Allergies: Symptoms, Reaction, Treatment & Management | Cleveland Clinic

Latex Allergy | Mayo Clinic